It takes a community to end violence against women
Safety Plan
Create an emergency escape plan
Create a list of important phone numbers (e.g. police, shelter) for yourself and your children, and always have change for a phone call 24-hours/7 days a week
Tell people you trust about the abuse – Create a list of safe places you can go (e.g. family, friend, shelter)
Tell your neighbours (if it’s safe) you would like them to call police if they hear fighting or screaming/possibly children will go there
Hide clothing, house keys, car keys, money, important documents (or copies), favourite toys, etc. at a friend or family member’s home
Keep all of your identification in your wallet (or other safe place)
Open your own bank account (at a bank different from your partner) and arrange that calls and bank statements go to a friend or family member
Save and set aside as much money as you can (e.g. from grocery budget)
Have $10 to $15 available for cab fare or an emergency
Be aware of any weapons in the home (including kitchen knives)
Teach your children their own safety plan (i.e. safe place to go, how to use the phone to call for help, emergency exits, etc)
Create a code word with your children and family so they know when to call for help
IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS & ITEMS TO TAKE WITH YOU WHEN YOU LEAVE
Identification
Birth certificates for you and your children
Health certificates for you and your children
Social insurance card
School and medical records
Money, bank books, credit cards
Keys – house, car, office, safety deposit box, mail box
Driver’s license and registration
Medications/prescriptions for you and your children
Passport, immigration papers, citizenship papers
Mortgage information, house deed, lease/rental agreement
Insurance papers
Address book
Pictures, jewellery, personal items of sentimental value
Any legal documents (i.e. separation agreement, divorce papers, restraining order)